Episode notes
Whether you’re feeling stuck in this market or looking for inspiration to lean in harder, Stephanie’s story will light a fire under you.
Stephanie Xelowski is a top-producing San Diego-based luxury agent who’s built her brand on authenticity, strategy, and straight-up hustle. In this episode of Stay Paid, she shares how she bounced back after tough market years, why she finally launched her podcast “Behind the Lock Box,” and how she’s using social media to stay top of mind—and top of her game.
💡 Topics include:
✅ The wild real estate stories behind her hit podcast
✅ How she built confidence to finally start her show
✅ The shift in mindset that led her to double down on social content
✅ Why boundaries matter with clients (and how to set them)
✅ Her systems for tracking ROI from social media
✅ The truth about “delulu” thinking in tough markets—and why it works
🔗 Connect with Stephanie on Instagram: @StephanieXelowski
📺 Subscribe to her podcast: BehindTheLockBox
⁉️ Do YOU have a question you’d like us to answer? Send us an email at podcast@remindermedia.com, or shoot us a DM on Instagram @staypaidpodcast
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