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The comeback story every agent needs to hear.
Jacob McLaughlin went from having $30 in his bank account to closing $25M in real estate sales—and building one of the fastest-growing referral platforms for agents.
In this episode of Stay Paid, Jacob shares the raw story behind his journey: cold calling through tax records, driving five hours for showings, walking dogs to survive financially, and ultimately launching ReferralMate, a platform now connecting over 12,000 agents nationwide.
Learn about Jacob’s journey:
- Jacob started real estate with no connections, no marketing budget, and only cold calling from tax records.
- After early success, a failed business venture left him with just $30 to his name.
- He rebuilt his career by doing everything possible—cold calls, social media, referrals, and long commutes for showings.
- Referrals became a key opportunity, which inspired him to build ReferralMate, now used by 12,000+ agents.
- The platform helps agents post referrals, apply for them, and manage agreements in one place.
- Successful referrals come from matching the right personality and expertise with the client.
- His advice for agents today: build referral networks, invest in social media, and take massive action.
🔗 Join ReferralMate: https://referralmate.co
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